The Swaningers join Sedona in education8 min read

The Swaninger family: Jill, Phoebe, Holly and Tom, from left. Their oldest daughter, Macy, is enrolled at Arizona State University, studying communications. The Swaningers recently moved to the Village of Oak Creek after Tom Swaninger was hired as superintendent of the Sedona-Oak Creek School District last year. He was formerly principal of Mesa’s Eastmark High School in the Gilbert School Distric. Jill Swaninger recently accepted a teaching position with SOCSD to teach English to middle schoolers and creative writing to high schoolers. Daulton Venglar/Larson Newspapers

Sedona Oak-Creek School District Superintendent Tom Swaninger and his future wife Jill Sharer were both born in 1974 and started their romantic relationship during Christmas break in 1992.

“He came to my older sister’s Christmas party with me, and it was kind of after that we made it official,” Jill Swaninger said.

The high school sweethearts initially had an English class together and would eventually go on to become, in Jill’s case, an English teacher, and, in Tom’s case, a school administrator.

Macy Swaninger, 20 is studying communications at Arizona State University. She’s found success on social media through TikTok, accumulating 300.000 followers, and is a frequent weekend visitor at the Swaningers’ new home in the Village of Oak Creek. Photo courtesy Tom Swaninger
Holly Swaninger, 12 poses for a photo at a restaurant in Uptown on her for day of being a resident of the Verde Valley. Photo courtesy Tom Swaninger

“I always tell the students that you never know that person sitting next to you,” Jill Swaninger said, referring to her marriage since 1999. “We’re a great balance. In my younger years … I tended to be more cautious, and a rule follower, and he was more adventurous … Besides that, he always has believed in me, too, sometimes to my detriment. Like when he first taught me how to mountain bike, he took me out on a tough trail and I have the scars to prove it.”

Jill Swaninger recently accepted a job teaching English to middle schoolers and creative writing to high schoolers in SOCSD and will also be assisting with curriculum mapping for fall 2024.

“Many educators have been questioning the longevity of this career,” Jill Swaninger said. “Since coming [to the VOC] I’ve been on a little hiatus … There was a point where I was job hunting, and was thinking maybe this is a perfect opportunity to do something else. But for the life of me, I couldn’t find one other thing I could be interested in.”

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“I believe that there is more joy found in the teaching position than anywhere else,” Tom Swaninger agreed.

Both feel, however, that their resumes did not prepare them to raise three daughters, Holly, 12, Phoebe, 16, and Macy, 20, with Tom Swaninger joking that their professional experience prepared them for parenthood “about as well as [teaching] prepares us for doing our taxes … in truth it does offer a bit of context to pull from as each [child] navigates through the complexities of adolescence.

“We still experience great challenges as does any parent, but teaching probably does help a bit.”

Sophomore Phoebe Swaninger, 16 bats during the Sedona Red Rock High School Scorpions softball game against the Mayer Wildcats on Feb. 29. The Scorpions won 18-1. “[Phoebe Swaninger] used to play second base [and] made a transition to play shortstop,” Coach Pedro Ortega, Sr. said. “She’s smart and has a good sense of the game.” “It’s nice to know that [Oretega] trusts me in that [role],” Phoebe said. “It’s fund there … I think a big strength [of this team] is just believing in everyone.”
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Holly chose to follow in her father’s wake in the pool, taking up swimming as her sport of choice — Tom Swaninger was an All-American swimmer in 1992. She said one of her early memories is of jumping straight into the pool in spite of not having much swimming experience at the time.

Holly Swaninger, 12joined the Sedona Race Pace club team and recently competed for the team in the 50-yard freestyle. Before moving to Sedona last year, she was a member of other competitive swim teams in the Phoenix metropolitan area. Photo courtesy Tom Swaninger

“The thing that I’m most proud of with all of my kids is that they’re all very kind, they’re deep feelers,” Tom Swaninger said. “Some people, I feel like they feel deeper than others. Which is good, but also can be [hard] because they tend to carry a lot of weight emotionally.”

He also observed that his daughters have been feeling increasingly independent.

“It was such a large portion of our life where that wasn’t the case,” Tom Swaninger said. “In the younger years, you’re doing things together as a unit, where the kids are excited to be with you all the time. Now they’re off with their friends a lot more and doing their own thing, which is healthy what they should be doing.”

The Swaningers are now residents of the Village of Oak Creek, sans Macy, who is studying communications at Arizona State University, and said there were several factors that went into deciding on their new home after relocating in July. They needed a place able to accommodate Tom Swaninger’s parents during the winter, and the daughters were united in declaring that the quality of the bathrooms was of the utmost importance. However, the placement of the Christmas tree in front of the living room window with the red rocks in the background was a deciding factor in their eventual home selection.

It’s a home where family traditions such as holiday bingo and the Christmas pickle will continue.

“I don’t know where the tradition started, but whoever finds the pickle ornament on the tree is the one that gets to open or pick who opens a gift first,” Holly Swaninger laughed.

The family also plans to return to their cottage in Michigan every year, which was the location where Tom proposed to Jill and was the site of a “super fancy” honeymoon where the couple fished and played cards.

“We can be kind of boring people,” Tom Swaninger laughed.

Tom and Jill Swaninger embrace each other. The couple first started dating during Christmas break of 1992 before having three daughters. Photo courtesy Tom Swaninger

The Swaningers are still being amazed by the outdoor recreation opportunities available in Sedona.

“If we’re together, we’re going to be fine,” Jill Swaninger said. “Just the little things we’ve had to get used to, being in a smaller town, not having many stores accessible, but we’ve adapted to it, and the biggest change, I think, is being further away from Macy.”

Macy noted parallels between the family’s recent move to Sedona and an earlier move from Michigan to Gilbert.

“It was definitely a lot for me because I grew up with all my cousins, my grandparents and saw my cousins every day,” Macy said. “Then when I got told we were moving, obviously I was super scared and did not want to leave. But the first week we moved into our new house I met my best friend [who] lived across the street, and we’re still best friends to this day … it was definitely scary at first, but I’m glad it happened.”

Tom Swaninger said he has observed an evolution in his daughters over the last few months, as well as how the girls keep their grandparents young by teaching them dances from TikTok.

Phoebe Swaninger takes a photo with saguaro cactus, endemic to the Sonoran Desert. Photo courtesy Tom Swaninger

“Holly, you hit the ground running with your friend group,” Tom said. “I see [that] Phoebe is really connected with her teachers, she’s getting straight A’s in her classes. If at any time she gets a grade or something happens that is anything really less than an A, she’s taking it upon herself to go back to her teacher and say, ‘What can I do to better understand this?’”

Phoebe said that changing schools has required an adjustment from her father’s former job as a principal in the Queen Creek Unified School District, when the family lived in the Phoenix metropolitan area.

“Everybody’s nice, but it’s a lot different, because my old school was huge,” Phoebe said during varsity softball practice. “After practice, I stay 30 minutes later, and [my dad and I] play together. It’s nice that we get to have that time together. We usually didn’t get to go to his old school.”

“I think [the move] is a lesson for these girls that you can do hard things,” Tom Swaninger said to his daughters. “It’s very easy to oftentimes to stay in the bubble … I think it’s a lesson in life. 

When you’re faced with something, you have to make a difficult choice, I can either stay where I’m at or I can push myself beyond my comfort zone. You’ll have something to look back on and say ‘I can do this.’”

Joseph K Giddens

Joseph K. Giddens grew up in southern Arizona and studied natural resources at the University of Arizona. He later joined the National Park Service in many different roles focusing on geoscience throughout the West. Drawn to deep time and ancient landscapes he’s worked at: Dinosaur National Monument, Petrified Forest National Park, Badlands National Park and Saguaro National Park among several other public land sites. Prior to joining Sedona Red Rock News, he worked for several Tucson outlets as well as the Williams-Grand Canyon News and the Navajo-Hopi Observer. He frequently is reading historic issues of the Tombstone Epitaph newspaper and daydreaming about rockhounding. Contact him at jgiddens@larsonnewspapers.com or (928) 282-7795 ext. 122.

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